Love her unconditionally, regardless of what happens. If you are not speaking to her, you can still love her by what you say about her, what you think about her and how you act towards her in regards to separation, divorce, children, etc. Even more importantly...pray. Pray about everything. God is a God of miracles, of love, of forgiveness. Pick up your bible and read the passages quoted in the article - and then read some more. Immerse yourself in the Word of God. Join a church, a bible study group, a support group. But ALWAYS be loving towards her - in actions and words. Hope this helps...
Bryan
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.