I have just gotten off the phone with our Divorce mediator, we have our mediation planned for next Friday, the house is going up for sale this weekend (I hope) all that is left is for me to file for D and for the first time in weeks I feel positive. I know I have a long hard road ahead but I am up for the challenge.
Once again I'm sorry you are having to go through this. Hopefully all will go well for you. If you still love your H don't forget that this may not be the end of the R. If he's truly going through a MLC then at some point he may snap out of it...but you GAL, concentrate on being a great mom (as I know you can) and do some things for you too.
GEL: I do still love him, part of me always will but I can never be with him again, I will never be able to trust anything he says:(, as for GEL, you bet, I ahve gone out bought a new wardrobe and if I do say so myself I look great:) and am sigining up for some classes...just for me:)