I'm so sorry to hear that you are finding out about more lies, and that you are feeling the way you are.
I know it can't be easy finding out that your H has been lying to you, what the nature of those lies are I don't know, but it can't be pleasant if you have decided to end your M over them.
Do you still feel he's going through a MLC? Do you feel if you put your foot down that he might listen to you at all? And here's a toughie...do you think your leaving will affect him, or do you think it's what he wants?
Remember Confused, you have friends here...even if we are only in the cyber world, we do care about what happens to you. Please don't just disappear, continue to check in and let us know how you are doing.
And...if you decide ending your M isn't what you want to do, and you need people to listen to thoughts/ideas or give suggestions...you know where to come.
Hang in there hon, things WILL get better for you.
