GEL: Part of me does still want to save the marriage as for him I have no idea, since finding this out on Thursday I know she has been calling him.... he has not answered her calls that I am aware of, She has come to my house to talk to him- which I was stupid enough to let him do, and he left for Toronto Saturday afternoon and will be there for about a week.
The counselling session was good the C actually said he sees hope for us but right now I don't know if I will ever be able to trust again, I feel that the past 1.5 years have all been a lie. H told the c that he has been unhappy for 2 yrs. The C told him that from the moment the OW came into the picture that he must take all responsibility for his unhappiness and if that is the case then we as a couple only share the weight of unhappiness for 6 months.
