Boy do I understand how that goes. Try to do yourself a favor...see if you can have a friend or someone watch the little one for a few hours and get out by yourself....BTW I have one at home who is just past 2 as well
Try to GAL as best you can right now. I know it's tough...but try to cultivate an interest right now if you can. It'll help to relieve your mind and take it off of thinking about this constantly...and if nothing else it may make you more interesting to your H. The more interesting you become the more likely it is for you to regain his attention
Make plans...go do things without him every now and then if you can. Of course I'm not saying you always have to do everything without your child....but don't stick around waiting on him either.
Right now it's VERY important for you to take care of Confused.
