My husband and I have a very good relationship (he has said this as well) really the only problem we have been having is this one, Lack of passion as he calls it and i have been doing alot of thinking and reading and am finally coming to terms with the issues at hand, I guess it has taken me a while to "wake up".
As for am I afraid that his remarks make me think that he is up to some mischief.... no, I know he has a female friend that he talks to and we have had converstions about this subject and no I do not feel that he is "up to anything" part of me did at first but the more we talk the more I know this is not part of the equation.