The wedding went great, not my story book ending, but we had a great day. The next week we left on vacation and has a good time. We had a talk about MC and he said he didn't feel that we needed it although he was feeling disconnected too. I said that if things are looking better by December, we were going, no questions. He agreed.
So, although there have been no great changes over the past couple months, we are both commited to fixing our R, so that is good. I am learning that there is no quick fix here...this takes a lot of time. It took us 8+ years to get like this.
I am seeing small changes...we are being nicer, more considerate of the little things, small compliments. Longer embraces, more cuddling...I can only hope all of this will add up to a healed R.
-Nicki-
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
