I tried phrasing it that way to my H several times...he didn't get it, that's why I tried the approach I mentioned. For him, it seems to have sunk in better...but everyone is different, that's why this is so difficult to deal with
Just yesterday in our S he finally understood that HE is putting me in a catch-22 (those words came out of his mouth).
He's talking big about this weekend....so I'm not getting my hopes up, but it'd sure be nice if he'd follow-through for once.
