Ok...that refreshes my memory. Your H sounds very familiar...I think I married his brother.
There is more going on here than sex. There are other issues, if he's anything like my LDH anyway....there are definitely other issues.
Has he ever had much of a sex drive? Has he had a physical to check his levels? I notice you say you have always had to initiate (me too)...it's simply possible he's someone who has the arousal=desire way of operating. But being someone who has had to do that all the time, I know how tiring that is...you'd give just about anything for him to just drag you off to the bedroom just once wouldn't you?
Hon, you aren't alone. And, what you are experiencing isn't as "wierd" as it may feel to you. In my last 2-years of trying to work on this with my LDH (and no that's not all that long in comparison to some people here) I have found many of my friends are dealing with a simliar situation. So it's not all that uncommon, it's just not talked about.
Anyway...answer some of the questions above, that will give us some direction.
Also, if you need someone to talk to about this offline feel free.....people on here find the conversations quite beneficial....but sometimes you just want to vent, but not to everyone LOL....I'm at anitam at nordam . com feel free.
