Quote: I do love and care about her very much. She is my best friend and someone who listens to me and makes me feel valuable.
This is a strange thing for a husband who is telling you he is lonely to say. I wonder if he actually wrote this e-mail?
FaithandHope I strongly suggest you re-read Divorce Busting/Divorce Remedy, particularly chapter 6 on the last resort and after the last resort. I firmly believe that is the only thing you can do with this thing right now. You need to take control of yourself and the situation. You need to heal yourself. There is nothing you can do about your husband's behaviour - you can only deal with your own.
Please take some time out - regroup - and concentrate on yourself - just for 48 hours. Sleep, rest, eat well, run around the block. Look after yourself. Read the book. Don't call or contact your husband. Ignore him if he tries to contact you. Develop some goals and a strategy.
Please take care of yourself.
You are in my prayers.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
