HOW DO YOU PEOPLE SURVIVE

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received this email from him.
The past 2 dyas I have been totally berratted by him, and finally yesterday I told him that if he says anything else to put me down, or call me anymore names, i will hang up the phone.
So, I ended up hanging up the phone, 3 more times.
The he called the cell phone, and left 2 nasty voice mails, and 2 rude texts.
about 2 hours after the Alien had calmed down he called again, and I let him know that "if you say one negative thing to me, my number will be changed on Monday and you will not have it"
The conversation was light, but that was Ok.
he said he was lonley.
Am I supposed to feel sorry for him??
he still denies the affair, even though I have all of the evidence.
I do not think this email is sincere, but let me know what you think.




Dear XXXXXX,

True to your nature, you are very interested in my meeting with Barbra last night and cannot wait. You are interested in your survival as if life is something to endure. You have always behaved as if you are being hunted. Maybe I finally know what it is like to be a hunter.

The meeting? The meeting took an unexpected turn.

I decided to take control of my life.

First, let me tell you for the thousandth time that I have never been intimate with Barbra. I do love and care about her very much. She is my best friend and someone who listens to me and makes me feel valuable.

But, all day yesterday I was thinking about my priorities. I discovered that I was not a priority in my own life. I have never been. I also know and have always known that my children are the dearest, sweetest most wonderful blessing I have. They are my life.

I came to the very hard conclusion that I have things right now in my life that I need to get accomplished and I don't need distractions to take me away from those goals. Barbra did not reach my top priorities.

Much like your hysteria and drama and foolish attacks on my life, I have now put my relationship with Barbra away. I only have my goals and my priorities to think about now.

1. I need to find a job. That is what I have been telling everyone. It is my number one priority for my children and for me.

2. I am seeking a separation as soon as possible. I cannot continue with blurred boundaries. This is for me because your drama needs to officially end in my life.

3. I need to find a place to live.

4. I need to safely bring the family back to California.

These are huge tasks and I need to be focused to accomplish them. Unfortunately, it does have its costs. I will not be calling, emailing, texting, or visiting Barbra. She is not a priority. She has agreed to this arrangement and will not be contacting me.

If I can sever contact with someone who has consistently demonstrated her love and care and friendship with me...how much easier to sever the relationship of someone who has only brought me bitterness and grief?

I know this means nothing to you. All you want to know is what is going to happen to you... Can you expect the authorities to pay you a visit. If I were you, I would be on my best behavior. There are no intentions to press charges, but if there is even a hint of your continued harassment, you are [censored]. You have no idea how much follow-up has been done about your actions.

I will not provide you with anymore detail about my meeting. You are going to have to get used to a need-to-know basis for information.

Finally, I made this decision to prove to myself how strong I am and how focused I can be. I want to be in charge of my life. I want to be with my little ones. Everything else is a distraction and weighing me down.

I will not discuss this anymore.

Deadly Serious,
Fred