H was crying on the phone because his "friend' may want to end their friendship because of me. She thinks I am insane and will come after her and her son. He is so angry with me because she is the only one who understands him and now he doesn't have anyone. How about a wife at home and 8 kids?? History has been rewritten and again I am the blame of everything wrong in his life. The man is still unemployed, living with his brothers family. He will be here in about 3 weeks to visit the kids. He has an openended ticket, and doesn't even want to extend his trip. I have asked him to please stay and help me get all of the stuff together for the sale of the house, as he did agree to sign the paperwork. I told him that if he gets a call for a job, of course then he should fly back to California. What he isn't getting is that his Mother is moving back on October 7th, and he hasn't even thought about where he will be living. Maybe he will finally move in with oW if they 'make up". this is a living nightmare and I just want it to end.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
