ok, this is coming from a guy that had a MLC, thinking i was a porno star going out with many women....... i remember i knew what i was doing but was not aware of it (does this make sense??????) i was not aware of the consequences, (it would be great to have a crystal ball, and to see how your were going to pay for your actions). if your H has a MLC, maybe that is what he is going through and (it sounds really, really stupid, i know) it is an experience he needs to live. ok, that idea is what gives me the strength to accept my WAW w/ OM. i know that maybe she is passionate now, but i know for a fact that she will see reality sometime...... just like i did. Her A, even if she marries, she will understand eventually..... and i will be there for her. now, this is what i am saying today, maybe in the future i will be somewhere else in my life. as a former MLC teenager, i recommend space for him..... i know it is the toughest thing on earth, but if you somehow find love within you, it is the best strategy.
i am definitely no expert at this, but i wanted to communicate 2 u, what i lived and what i felt....