Thanks again for your kind response on my thread...
It means alot to me---
I was thinking today about what you said, and what if our WAS' actions are not ALL about us?
What if they are all about their own personal fears?
It would not mean that we feel any less pain...
But, perhaps it is not as much about what we are not, as much as it is about what THEY are not...
It is more about their confusion, fears, and unhappiness.
It does still hurt and often feels like rejection, but with time--- We will see more and more that it is NOT about us. This is something that is happening with them.
It is NOT specifically about us...
Gabe... it is so great to see you doing fun things this past weekend... You deserve it! It is so obvious what an incredible man and father you truly are!
Your friend, KIM
