Actually, Gabe, I think your XW sounds pretty depressed and almost like she wants you to rescue her or she's regretting her actions (telling you she's miserable etc).
Andy would never admit that unless he was severely messed up. I don't think WAS's do.
Also, maybe she is realising the consquences of her actions (you not being able to go to her place to pick up S6 because of the RO etc).
