That seems to be your Achilles heel, knowing what to say when. Let's not get into mine, there are too many. Remember the DB mantra, "If you're not sure what to do (or say in this case), do (say) nothing. That one has helped me a bunch where I would have otherwise stepped on my Schwantz. But, if I could do that, I probably wouldn't be in this mess.
I wish Martha would visit me. I'm beginning to think she doesn't like me anymore. I agree w/ her though. Why be fake? It shines through. Besides, you don't need to artificially turn back time to be a stud. After all, you're one of my bros. That's like a platinum card.
I'm fairly conservative, but don't hold that against me b/c I am usually able to look at both sides of the coin, even if I disagree.
As far as su casa, I want to come out for a w/e some time and go kayaking or something aquatic w/ you. I think it would be a blast!