Gabe, I'm with Wes on this one in terms of the way your comment could have been interpreted as controling. Pardon my usual soapbox, but M&V buddy...M&V. Don't jump in to be Mr. Fix-It when she brings up difficulties in her life. Just listen. And when you disagree about something re:S6, think long and hard about how to communicated it so it does not come off as a critique of her parenting. Oh yeah...DR basics too -- affirmation, affirmation, affirmation.
And, btw, haven't we had this dye-job discussion before?? Or was it on someone else's thread. Either way, Kim is right -- DON'T DO IT, DUDE! As a single woman who's been "out in the jungle" I can spot these guys a mile away. And the first thought that always pops into my head is, "Poor guy...trying to look younger than he really is, using that stupid grecian formula crap. He should be happy he still HAS hair and it's too bad he doesn't feel better about himself." Then of course I would immediately write them off as potential date mates.
So ya see, dude, absolutely don't do it. It will only bring silent pity on your head. Capeesh? (phonetics, I know! )