Thank you for the compliment on my thread last night...
I notice that sometimes when you speak with your XW that she seems "moody" or "stressed" (recently you mentioned that she looked unhappy and rough)...
I was thinking that she IS moody b/c a relationship did not work out... Her relationship with YOU!
She is bound to be depressed and especially b/c I am sure that there is a part of her that thinks she has made a HUGE mistake, but she is too stubborn or proud to admit it...
She IS going to be cranky, hurt, frustrated, and be grieving the lost marriage even though she was the one who walked away. Try to let her grieve without taking it too personally. Most of the negative stuff she does say or do to you is just a bunch of crap anyway...
She is probably riding an emotional roller coaster too!
Gabriel, you are TRULY a remarkable man! I am positive that you WILL find happiness and it seems you are already off to a good start...
You always have the ability to give me such a boost at the times when I need it the most...
You are SO right--- My husband IS going to have a "screamfest" when he finally gets what a rare woman I am!
(Poor guy!).... I think you are awesome, Gabriel... I read MANY of your posts to others and the way you give your wisdom to other people on this BB who are in pain... You are a wonderful person worthy of such great love! Your son is a VERY lucky little boy to have such an incredible father!
P.S.... You mentioned that the longer your hair gets, the grayer it looks and that you are tempted to dye it...
My advice-- There is nothing "sexier" than a man with a little bit of gray going on! DO NOT DYE IT!
Sending you warm thoughts from "Sunny California"... -KIM
-KIM 
