Quote: I'm pretty sure a LL of mine is PT, so I'm a bit starved in that department. I wonder if a person develops appreciation for the other LLs in such a dilemma? Kind of like increased sensitivity to sound and touch when one's sight is lost.
Absolutely.
In some of my earliest posts I commented on how it had been three months, four months, six months since I ML and I was pulling my hair out! Now after two years , Iit's the intimacy of ML that attracts me, not just the pure physical pleasure--I want to know there's someone inside that other person that I care about.
However, I have also that how sometimes a simple touch from another woman can get my juices stirred, almost like a narcotic. This is not every touch, but it happens enough to get ideas in my head--and I don't want to end up chasing the narcotic at this point.
So I think you are correct. One cannot only survive the loss of aprimary love language, but the pure knowledge of LLs can enable one to strenghten their appreciation of the other LLs, not only for us, but how we treat others.
And don't foreget to apply LL's with S6. My D7 frequently gives me pictures she draws. I wasa thinking of drawing one of myself for her (which I will do), but as I looked at the barren walls in my apartment that needed decorating, I thought what better place to place her artwork. Whe she saw her latest picture on her last visit, she just beamed --and best of all, inside I knew it wasn't just because she was proud of the picture, but because I gave so much attention to her show of love. I'll take that to the bank any day.
, Iit's the intimacy of ML that attracts me, not just the pure physical pleasure--I want to know there's someone inside that other person that I care about.
--and best of all, inside I knew it wasn't just because she was proud of the picture, but because I gave so much attention to her show of love. I'll take that to the bank any day. 
