I wholeheartedly approve of everything written here. I hoped you gave her the opportunity to vent and vent about the car, asked questions, and listened. I struggle with the Mr. Fix-it thing. If they are talking about a hard day at work or feeling glum, I do believe Mr. Fix-it is not the way to go. When I'm not so sure is when it is a discrete problem that can be fixed rather than just sympathized about. In this case, you're not a mechanic so I suppose sympathy is all you could offer.

But I thoroughly approve of the chocolates. If it doesn't result in a positive you know not to do that again for awhile, but otherwise it will stick with her that you were sweet on that occasion.

Good job. Have a good weekend.

Me


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Abraham Lincoln

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
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