Heard from a FF that XW said her RO placed against me was necessary cause I still had feelings for her, and that to her, I'm acting now like I "finally got the message" that we're over. Yeouuch! It also seemed like XW is expecting/looking for retaliation, and has taken my criticisms about her parenting as such. On the one hand, to her - my finally getting the message might mean that she's relaxing finally about any sense of pressure from me regarding our M/R. On the other hand, she seems pretty angry and done at the moment.
I'm still waiting for her house of cards to come crashing down. I'm imagining this to be in part financially driven - when her savings runs out, and in part relationally, as this friend said she was presenting herself as a very tame/demure person to males, while acting rather wild around women.
A rough reality check I'd rather not have known about, yet it may be good for me in terms of GAL. Given her continued MLC issues and needed work, I'm taking this as just another suggestion to drop the rope and GAL. I really have to stay positive and keep building.
Any advice/comments about MLC and bisexuality exploration?
