I found both your posts reassuring. Wes, if your Ex1 could still be rethinking things after the D despite no DBing, than maybe there's hope for me. T, thanks, I'll chaulk it up to the past and stay focused on my goals.
To help root me out of this rotten mood, I snuck out of the office and lifted wts and ran. I arrived sweating to the extra "Stress" class, but it felt excellent.
I'm starting to look into flooring options for the house. Yippee!