Thanks for that article, Lillie. We didn't get around to talking about the Fockers last night, but we did end up having an argument about something else. After reading the article you cited (which I read this morning), I see that our argument started because she came out of the gates full of anger and blame towards me. When that happens, I get very defensive, and it all escalates from there.
As the article says, we need to learn how to fight fairly. It continues to be a problem.
