(((hd))) When you post these updates, they always make me want to cry.
I came across this yesterday:
Quote: The researchers found five negative behaviors that can be toxic to a marriage: contempt, defensiveness, criticism, belligerence and stonewalling.
Here's one place where the [url=http://64.233.187.104/search?q=cache:rz6j7UKMDLUJ:archives.his.com/smartmarriages/1999-September/msg00026.html+"Diane+Sollee"+marriage+contempt&hl=en]source[/url] can be found.
Maybe you should look up the article, excerpt relevant parts, and take them in to the C to discuss in front of W. Your W seems determined to hold this marriage's head under water until it stops moving. And when that happens, somehow it will be your fault.
