She really had her "shields up" this weekend. (Nod to Scott1701). During what might be called our "cuddle time" (e.g. before the kids get up, when we are still in bed), she would make some remark about why I have been doing a poor job taking care of x, y, or z. I immediately react to this by not wanting to touch her, not wanting to be close, etc.
She creates conflict to keep me away from her. I suppose this is a big issue we need to deal with at the MC.