I thought "Meet the Fockers" was hilarious too...so did my LDH.
I think MrsHairdog has to come up with things to justify her position. You must want X therefore you must be Y. So, in order for you to think that the sexual R the Fokers had would be nice....then you must also really want to be that lazy slob who wants his W to support him. I don't know that she's saying you ARE a lazy slob....I thinks she's just trying to justify that if you want one then you must truly want the other too. Did that make sense? It's like she can't see that there is a happy-medium to it. Where...you don't exactly boink like bunnies every day on every piece of furniture you own in the house causing a constant state of mess and disarray......but you have a mutually satisfying SL AND are able to make sure the chores are done, dinner is cooked, and the mortgage is paid.
