With good reason, too. He's let me down on many of his promises.
I have not brought it up in a long time. He said (last week) that I do not trust him to hold up his end of the bargain. He is absolutely correct.
Here is my true feelings: The minute I re-invest myself emotionally in this marriage, he will sink back into his former behavior.
He said, in that same conversation, that me turning him down makes him horny for me. That he is inspired by the challenge. I said, Well then you can understand my hopeless feelings concerning our situation. If the only way you can sustain any desire is when I shut down, then we will never have a reciprocal M, where we both desire each other. That comment was met with silence.
