I'm just curious...because I've noticed that sooo many men I've been around (in particular) are really big on "trust"...have you ever approached your H the way I did mine, and the way I've suggested to Karen? You know, something along the lines of "I just don't trust that you will do what I've asked...because of xyz". Of course phrasing it so it fits truthfully into something meaningful to the two of you. Something that you've needed, that he's said he would do...but hasn't followed-through on and it's let you down.
