LfL wrote
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That was my H to a tee. All the scheduled sex, romantic dinners, lingerie, etc will not change the fact that his sexual hang-ups are his to own and address.
H and I tried the scheduled sex last year and that went up in flames. All of those techniques are band-aids covering up much deeper problems.


So have you addressed those deeper problems? Are they still there? When he decidedto become HD, what happened to the problems?

BTW I certainly agree what the lack of sex is NOT the only problem in a R that has a lack of sex.

Honey, you've split the atom-- I got lotsa questions!