Blech on the mercy sex. Double blech on Anniversary mercy sex.
My H swears he loves me, swears he feel passionate about me, swears he misses sex too, swears he misses spending time with me (see just about any of Honeypot's threads for the same rigamarole from her H) and yet not a GD bit of it actually relates to behaviors from him. He said last night that he wanted to know what he could do besides quit doing something vital in our lives. I said - how about a real kiss when I come home, how about jumping in the shower with me once in a awhile, how about a nice grope once in a while. The excuses ranged from - too busy, to too big to fit in the shower together, to can't grope with small children around. OMG - it is hopeless. The only excuse I hear is "I don't really want to." Well, I guess I better accept that one since that is what is operational here.
Got an apology type of email from H. Didn't directly apologize (rarely does) but he said he understood that I was trying to say that I love him and he was trying to say the same to me. Sorry we don't have more time together blah.... I don't believe that time is the issue. He won't seem to hear that message either. How much time does it really take to feel up your S in the kitchen? How much time is required for a real kiss instead of a peck? C'mon - tell that crap to someone who believes it.
