(((Karen))
I wish I could add more as well. I am in much the same spot. I gave the W a hug and a feel up on Saturday and got a "Guess we should go to be early" response. However when bedtime hit both Saturday and Sunday she was turning her light off(which is her code for going to sleep) both nights while I was reading to the kiddo.

Even though we had our couples group over the weekend, she's still not picking up that the frequency needs to be upped. We've got a weekend planned for the two of us at the end of October, so I hope we can figure something out then, but since there hasn't been a change in frequency since we started the counselling, ME Weekend and the Couple Group, I'm not optomistic.

So I wish I had something to add to help, but alas I am in the same boat as you, GGB and Hairdog.

Scott
-Who does have the good news of starting a new job next Monday . However the last time he got jumped was some pretty bad mercy sex on our aniversary on Sept 1

"Satisfaction is not guaranteed." Rule #19 Ferengi "Rules of Acquistition"