Thanks. That is pretty much what I think on most days. However, today I'm thinking more like this....Who died and made me H's boss? What right do I have to decide how he should grow. Maybe it is me who needs to grow up. Maybe I need to accept things as they are. And then there is there is a little tiny voice pointing out that our lack of a SL is probably my fault I just haven't figured out in what way yet.
