Well I did think of you when I wrote that...but it wasn't directly written for just you LOL. It's only natural to look for patterns to try to gain an understanding of things. I guess for me though I can accept that sometimes there's simply not always a pattern.
I ask lots of questions to gain understanding, just like you do. But I guess the difference between you and I (and no ennegrams on this please) is that I look to understand the person as an individual....not compare the person to other groups of people to understand. I hope that made sense...and that it came across as intended.