ZB, When the sex was better, did the animal situation bother you as much?
I'm trying to see if this issue stands on its own or if the resentment from the rug-yanking is causing it to have more oomph. I know it bothers you regardless, but does it bother you enough to take a stand on it even in sex-filled times, or only when you are pissed off about other issues too?
Just curious.
If I were you, I'd haul her back into counseling and before the introductions were even complete, I'd stand up and forcefully announce: "I have two issues with my wife. First of all, I've endured 30 years of sexless marriage with her and secondly, I've done it while she has been obssessed with animals that run our lives."
Then sit down and let the fun begin.
Hugs to you; your life sounds miserable to me. I am not an animal lover (don't dislike them, I just do not want to live with them, except as they live in nature) so take that with a grain.
