On the two occasions when I have woken Ms. HDog by touching her in forbidden places, once, it was her breasts, once her "squeezy bits." Both times, I began with the hopes of arousing her both from sleep and from non-horniness. Both times, she made sounds/movements that seemed to encourage me to go on. Both times, she awoke fully and was totally outraged.
I haven't touched her "forbidden places" without her being fully awake, and without plenty of confidence that things were moving apace towards ML, since. Usually, a touch on her thigh or her shoulder is just brushed off well before that time.
My libido is VERY low. I hope it's just in semi-hibernation.