Karen and GGB - I also got some action 3 times this weekend. Hurray. Karen, thanks for your words. I have decided that I am committed to my M and am going full steam ahead with working on our SL and other R issues. If I feel like I am "slipping", I will be seeking out IC for my own sanity. But, I am feeling very hopeful. I am getting away from looking at the M as "for the kids". I know that would never be enough for me so I am really focusing on bettering our entire dynamic. He is fully on board as well which obviously helps. Good point about "sustaining the momentum". I fear we will slip back into old patterns. As for receiving feedback from my own H that I am pretty, sexy, whatever, he has been good about making comments everyday that make me feel desired. When he does this, I often make a point to tell him how much that means to me and makes me want him more in return. Everyone needs some positive reinforcement now and then.
