Re GEL: I ended up being the only one actively doing anything...he was pretty much just laying there like a bump on a log. So....I stopped, got off of him and said "I'm not doing this, this isn't worth it." I think lots of guys are in that position, but we continue.
I kind of have done this but just in a verbal way. I said, " You don't seem to be into this. I am thinking about stopping." That was after me doing all of the moves and taking her clothes off.
BB said to keep going with the sex if I would keep doing her back.
Sometimes I thought of getting up, finishing myself off in front of BB and go watch TV. I thought that would be passive agressive so I did not do it.
Do any of the ladies think a guy could do what GEL did and not have it backfire on the guy? How would you take it? What could a guy say to get the point across without stepping over the respect line? I don't intend to be vindictive.
