GGB, A question that is helpful to ask is what does Mrs. GGB think she would gain by having a passionate SL with you? Now that you are in a more or less LD mode, you might be able to more objective about her answer.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"