Quote: I distinctly remember one evening that my H said we'd ML...and I ended up being the only one actively doing anything...he was pretty much just laying there like a bump on a log. So....I stopped, got off of him and said "I'm not doing this, this isn't worth it." That got his attention big time, I've never stopped like that and just got up, put on my robe and refused to go on. So naturally he asked me what was wrong. I explained that he wasn't even participating....yes, he was there...but doing NOTHING, he was leaving everything up to me. I asked him...."how gratifying do you think that is for me? How do you think it makes me feel to have you just lay there and make no effort whatsoever? I'd rather not have sex at all if that's what you're going to do...I don't need that."
Do I remember you saying that you were once LD, but became HD? Does this put you in a better position to understand your H's LD? If your H is uncomfortable with sex, do you consider working through that discomfort a part of participating in ML?
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"
