Well guys. Good too know I'm not weird or I am weird but in good company. Yeah - what HP said about the three times. If the sex was 3 times/week every week then it would be fine. It is just when the sex is non-existent then we do it once, then let another week or two go by that it is really lackluster. Yes, I think I will mention it to my H. The lay-offs are murder.
I have a feeling he was wondering where his quick to arouse wife was last night. For the first time I actually took his hand and changed the position because he was trying so hard to get me aroused it was starting to get physically irritating and a little painful.
Of course, another thing that would have helped would have been for H to change the "routine" and try something different - throwing in a charge of real desire for me would have brought on plenty of shivers of pleasure. He just kinda seems to keep a tight rein on his sexuality. God forbid when your partner isn't lubricating that you stop with the squeezy bits and just spend a few minutes kissing her passionately and telling her how sexy she is. Piece of advice guys - when you are doing what usually works and it isn't - do something else!
