Re: karen1 When it has been a few weeks between I have a hard time "getting started." The emotional connection is just too weak. I guarantee that if we ML again right now I would lubricate quickly and "o" several times. I would have better access to my feelings of passion for my H, better connection with my body etc... When it is too long between I get so used to ignoring my body and the sexual signals it sends I just have trouble. When it is too long between my passion for my H and my marrige wanes. I feel as if we really are just roomates and I put up my defenses so I can live that way. Does your H know this? and how your body/emotions work at your level in an intelectual way?
Karen1, I wish I had heard something like this 30+ years ago. I was under the impression women thought once or twice a week was pleantf for them and more would actually lessen their desire.
You are saying about the same thing honetpot asid several months ago. The first time is to take the edge off. The second time to start to feel good. And the third time to really feel satisfied and fulfilled, or something like that.
