Well said Mrs. Nop. Funny, after my looooong whiny voice mail yesterday H said "let's go out again together this weekend" - two whole weekends in a row. That NEVER happens. I think I will address the scheduling issue then.
Predictably, we ML last night. H was interested over the weekend but didn't do anything about it because I was still spotting from my period. Then I had my little whiny phone session and of course he thinks to himself "She's probably miffed because we haven't had sex in weeks - guess I should do something about that." We did. It was fine.
When it has been a few weeks between I have a hard time "getting started." The emotional connection is just too weak. I guarantee that if we ML again right now I would lubricate quickly and "o" several times. I would have better access to my feelings of passion for my H, better connection with my body etc... When it is too long between I get so used to ignoring my body and the sexual signals it sends I just have trouble. When it is too long between my passion for my H and my marrige wanes. I feel as if we really are just roomates and I put up my defenses so I can live that way. Anyone else feel this way. Anyone else find the much longed for sex to be very sub-par but if you ML again within a short period of time (say a day or two) it is MUCH better?
