Quote: I guess I took him by suprise because he left me a message to say that while he didn't understand all that I am feeling that he wanted to tell me that he loves me.
I guess I'm not sure how I feel about that. As I have so often said before. Love me how? Like what? Like a roomate? A good friend? Like your sweet old Aunt Bessie? Like I love you but I'm not in love with you? I just don't know.
This is where that list comes in.
I want to feel that I am important to you. Not as your wife or the mother or your children. As me.
Love me by making fun plans to be with me, dancing or dinner or language lessons at least X number of times per X.
You know that excitement you get about getting with your buddies? I want to see that excitement aimed toward me on occasion. What can we do to help make that happen?
I want to be the focus of your spare time for a while. I am feeling lonely and lost and that my existance in your life is more of a burden than a blessings. I am devastated when I sense that my needs are little more than a form of pressure to you. What can we do to facilitate a different outcome?
I am a woman with strong sexual desires and needs. I want you to come after me, respond sexually to me on a regular basis in the way you focus on me when we are making babies. What can we do to ensure that this happens on a regular basis?
