How about saying, "We have (whatever evening) free to spend together, I'd like to hear your ideas for an activity that evening." Let your H suggest activities that interest him, choose an option that interests you and go from there.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"