your note: You mentioned Dance class...he let it drop
I begged my W to attend dance classes with me for the first couple years of my marriage...she was not interested or said we didn't need that. I was so upset/pissed....that is recent year's she brought it up and I just ignored it.
My wife has spent so much time being non-sexual...I had to shutdown to keep from going crazy. I have little desire to spend anytime with her....for example this summer all the kids were at Grandma's for a couple of weeks. We had relations once....didn't speak about it, the session was silent...never discussed it again. I didn't try to spend a lot of time with her during this period, why...she doesn't want me
