Last night I came home from work to find my husband gone with the kid's. He packed all his stuff while I was at work and moved out. I came home to a shock. I know I posted he mentioned he was leaving. But that was weeks ago and he didn't go. I asked him to at least prepare me for an exact date that he would be moving out and do that out of respect or compassion for a 12 year marriage. But he didn't. I told him I would need to work on getting a babysitter and everything else. So that is the reason I asked him to prepare me at least. But just like in our SSM he always refused to talk about anything. Same here he left and not one word about it. He doesn't think he has to discuss anything.