Been thinking about that article on 2much's thread that said "I love you but Im not in love with you" really means, "I care about you, but I'm not that excited about you". Im there. Send help!
Finally an opportunity to help! I was running out of different ways to say "Dang, Sheila, you are kicking a$$!"
So here's your help, from my perspective. You care about him but you're not excited about him today. What's wrong with that? The only thing I can see wrong with that is some people panic and become susceptible to getting with somebody else who they *are* excited about. But the point of the article you mention is that love is a verb. So despite the fact that you're not excited about him, you'll love your H today.
And it's good to have those memories of excitement and affection; it gives you something to build toward and hope for in your R. You'll be in trouble if you start stamping out those feelings, memories and dreams because you've given up finding them with H. You had some similar feelings for him not long ago and they'll be back soon enough. He has to do some work meeting your emotional needs as well for you to feel really great about him a lot of the time and it seems like he's coming around to that, albeit a little slowly. So here comes the lame part of this post...hang in there!
Patience sucks rocks. But love is pretty cool.
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