Halfway through the day and Yay me! I've just sat back and worked on my PMA and enjoyed the day with H! No R talks AT ALL.. wonderful! Had a shaky start with H asking what's wrong a few times and I asked him to please stop asking that because it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. Other than that, we had a fun day together. Played 14 holes before it started raining and H was actually the one to say we needed to go and get on with our errands. Let him pick a restaurant.. he seemed pleased that I didn't want to go to one of the places I usually pick and was happy to go to Shoney's (egad!), but it was fine. He ordered dessert for us to share.. chocolate.. yum. Long drive.. no R discussions, no mention of jobs or OW.. yay. He got a weird cell phone call and he seemed nervous. He said wrong number, and I said, Oh. Got that one from you Sikan! Then we went to the pet store to get the boys turtles. He was like a little kid playing with the puppies and checking out the lizards. The lady let him watch her feed one of the lizards.. yuck. He was very carefree and smiling most of the day. Then we stopped and picked up rocks for the aquarium and came home and got the turtles settled. He made mention of some landscaping that we need to get done, and talked about how we might do that ourselves. Big thing that he even mentions that.. it's been on my plate of responsibilities for awhile. Anyway, he's off to get the boys and we have cheer pics in a few. Hope the evening goes well. H was very flirty and sweet today. He just seems to relax so much when I don't bring up what needs to be done, or anything negative. We even had to run and get S5 from school (sinus stuff), and he didnt blink an eye. And a 180 for me.. instead of us just staying at home and blowing off our plans.. we took him to the sitters for the day once we saw that he was fine, just a little stuffy. H didnt even get irritated that we had to leave the golf course, and spend an hour getting S taken care of. Maybe it's because I didn't overreact to the sitch and just blow our plans off? I caught him looking at me driving hom and asked "what"? And he said, "Ya know, you're a pretty good girl.. I love ya" Which, if you know him means, he was feeling proud of me.
