I wanted to send another quick note before I ran off to a meeting. I'm also suffering from the Monday Blues because H is going back to work and is around OW. Didn't help that I was at H's office on Sunday with him and saw some postcards from her up on the wall. God, my H's OW is so inappropriate!! (Also, I'm driving myself crazy imagining what they might say!)
I wanted to find out from you what your thoughts were when your H said R would have gone away on it's own if left alone. I wonder sometimes the same thing about my sitch. Are these OW just away for our H's to make it through their personal rough spots and if so will it just have its own shelf-life? Why would our involvement keep it going? Because we are asking them to take a look at some very defective parts of themselves?
I'm right there with you about feeling low. Don't snoop. It isn't worth it. Instead, you can debate with me about this topic to your heart's content!
