Thank you for stopping by on my thread. You and I are of very similar minds these days. I am also trying to understand what my H's love (imperfect as it is) really means. I have a long post on my thread today about this.
It's such a hard question to consider, that is what is someone's love to another? My H also says things to me that he loves me beyond anything in this world. In many ways, I believe him but that still doesn't keep me from being insecure because he doesn't have any pictures of me at his work.
Most R's it seems are just two dysfunctional people, functioning well together. I don't know anyone who is completely, 100% free of baggage and is completely evolved mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I think that those who are, have no need for an intimate R. So, us mere mortals need to consider that we are all flawed and find ways to be able to either compromise or overcome our flaws.
In the meantime, I would be very happy to keep examining what this means in our lives and our Rs with you.
